LLVM 16: Switch to using MemoryEffects
This adapts the compiler to the changes required by 304f1d59ca.
AFAICT, `WriteOnly` isn't used by the compiler, all `ReadNone` uses were migrated and the remaining use of `ReadOnly` is only for function parameters.
To simplify the FFI, this PR uses an enum to represent `MemoryEffects` across the FFI boundary, which then gets mapped to the matching static factory method when constructing the attribute.
Fixes#103961.
`@rustbot` label +llvm-main
r? `@nikic`