Disable the machine outliner by default
This addresses a codegen-issue that needs to be fixed upstream in LLVM.
While we wait for the fix, we can disable it.
Verified manually that the outliner is no longer run when
`-Copt-level=z` is specified, and also that you can override this with
`-Cllvm-args=-enable-machine-outliner` if you need it anyway.
A regression test is not really feasible in this instance, given that we
do not have any minimal reproducers.
Fixes#85351
cc `@pnkfelix`