Use UnordMap and UnordSet for id collections (DefIdMap, LocalDefIdMap, etc)
This PR changes the `rustc_data_structures::define_id_collections!` macro to use `UnordMap` and `UnordSet` instead of `FxHashMap` and `FxHashSet`. This should account for a large portion of hash-maps being used in places where they can cause trouble.
The changes required are moderate but non-zero:
- In some places the collections are extracted into sorted vecs.
- There are a few instances where for-loops have been changed to extends.
~~Let's see what the performance impact is. With a bit more refactoring, we might be able to get rid of some of the additional sorting -- but the change set is already big enough. Unless there's a performance impact, I'd like to do further changes in subsequent PRs.~~
Performance does not seem to be negatively affected ([perf-run here](https://github.com/rust-lang/rust/pull/106977#issuecomment-1396776699)).
Part of [MCP 533](https://github.com/rust-lang/compiler-team/issues/533).
r? `@ghost`
