No longer track "zero-width" chars in `SourceMap`, read directly from the line when calculating the `display_col` of a `BytePos`. Move `char_width` to `rustc_span` and use it from the emitter.
This change allows the following to properly align in terminals (depending on the font, the replaced control codepoints are rendered as 1 or 2 width, on my terminal they are rendered as 1, on VSCode text they are rendered as 2):
```
error: this file contains an unclosed delimiter
--> $DIR/issue-68629.rs:5:17
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LL | ␜␟ts␀ or the [Cargo reference](https://doc.rust-lang.org/nightly/cargo/reference/unstable.html#check-cfg), depending if rustc is invoked by Cargo
- it secondly adds a suggestion on how to expect the cfg name or value:
*excluding well known names and values*
- for Cargo: it suggest using a feature or `cargo:rust-check-cfg` in build script
- for rustc: it suggest using `--check-cfg` (with the correct invocation)
Those diagnostics improvements are directed towards enabling users to fix the issue if the previous suggestions weren't good enough.
r? `@petrochenkov`
