Properly record metavar spans for other expansions other than TT
This properly records metavar spans for nonterminals other than tokentree. This means that we operations like `span.to(other_span)` work correctly for macros. As you can see, other diagnostics involving metavars have improved as a result.
Fixes#132908
Alternative to #133270
cc `@ehuss`
cc `@petrochenkov`